Tantra sex is said to be able to make longer sex partner, having multiple orgasm, and spiritual relationship that is more in.Now I will bring you acquainted with the ancient Indian art of love this.
How should you make love?There is no guidebook that really appropriate to show it.Every person has a different style, and we can not say what is right or wrong.Even so, the culture tends to shape our thinking that sex is something that the passionate, fiery and have one final goal: orgasm.Sex is the ideal that we see in blue movies, when a man and a woman (who does not usually know each other, like a lonely wife with a pizza delivery) quickly stripping, immediately made passionate love and a normal life the next day as usual .
Sex in movies is always portrayed with excitement.Men and women can have sex longer and both sides always have an orgasm.Every movement seemed to exploration of new territory is full of surprises.Sex like this may seem so bite the first time you have sex with a partner.But in reality, after having sex with her hundreds of times, hot sex suddenly lose sting.You start to feel tired because of the movements become predictable.So does this mean you must be a lonely wife and having sex with an unknown man?
What should not change your sex partner, but change your perspective on sex.Sex is good then what?Tantric science which is thousands of years old and is now so popular in the western world, invites you to view sex as a vital force of life that is not solely to achieve orgasm, but a ritual that allows you to play, explore and enjoy the real pleasure of sex.
"Before having sex, throw away all the worries of the past or the future..."
Tantric spiritual road Before knowing what tantric sex is, you need to know the basic concepts of tantra as a philosophy.Many people still do not get a clear picture of the tantric and considered the same as kamasutra.Tantra is not kamasutra more focused on sex positions.In tantra, sex is a form of energy to achieve harmonization of life.Derived from the 'tan' which means' to expand, stretching, spinning ", the principles of tantra is to establish a different energy, be it physical, spiritual, and sexual, so that we ourselves become whole and integrated with the cosmic universe.Sex in the teachings of tantra is not something that should be hidden, but it is a force that can provide the motivation to live.In tantra, enlightenment is achieved through sexual experiences, or the union of Shiva and Shakti, the principles of feminine and masculine in a person.
Tantra is a spiritual path that emphasizes the importance of meditation.This may seem hard to do, but if you give full attention to whatever is happening, you have to do meditation.Meditate while eating means watching every chew and try to appreciate all what goes into your body.If connected with sex, this means sharpening all your senses to stimuli, either touch, smell, hearing, and sense of taste.Tantra teaches you to remain calm and not in a hurry, so you can be more sensitive to the needs of self and partner in love.
Tantra sex: Enchantment and benefits.In tantra, love and sex intertwined together as the energy that must be achieved harmony.For that, the couple should raise the kundalini, or sexual energy within every person who is said to have under the spine between the waist and hips.Kundalini will awaken a sense of amusement in the abdomen when touched.This is the essence of yourself that is feminine and energy known as Goddess Shakti.If resurrected, Shakti will unite with the masculine energy of Shiva, the lover who is said to be pat on the head.When this happens you will feel enlightened and one with the energy of the universe.Although the spiritual side of Tantra impressed abstract as many assume, we can feel the benefits in daily life.Your sex life will have a strong foundation for intimacy that Tantra does not distinguish between sex and love.Tantric sex is an expression of eroticism, rather than physical stimulation.The goal is not to show your greatness of the bed, but make connections that have created more profound and meaningful.In accordance with one of understanding Tantra, expansion, tantric sex allows men and women having sex and extend the multi-orgasm feeling.Make love in tantric viewed as a dance that has no beginning and end.There is no purpose: that is a beautiful intimate union.Believe it or not, Sting, hardworking musicians who practice yoga and tantra, admitted to having sex for 5 hours.
Tantra invites you to discover your own sexuality, so that thoughts like 'if my body like Jennifer Lopez ...' will not disturb the enjoyment of sex.You will also be guided to see things as always new.So if you previously saw the body numb couple (which was so-so alone even getting fat), with tantra you can see her as a beauty that you admire.
In the end, after you have sex, your partner will not feel 'drained', but rather to get new energy.No wonder the sex tantric other benefits outside of intimate relationships, such as the ability to concentrate and durability of a higher body, even if you sleep less, your vitality is maintained.
Training to be a "Sexpert tantric"
The first principle must be held before you became an expert Tantric lovemaking style is live at this moment.Before having sex, throw away all the worries of the past or the future, such as credit card debt until the deadline work.Concentrate only on yourself and your partner.Tantric sex sexual fantasy does not recommend, because it makes you not able to fully enjoy the closeness.Stop thinking and start feeling.Kundalini in you is the conscience of the body; he would hide if you start to use logic. Instead, he will respond to music, dance, and everything associated with pleasure.So do not worry about your body less slender or smell of your vagina when she did oral sex, but enjoy these activities and do not worry about the others.
After you calm and focused, try to do the things below:
*Create commitment You both need to spend at least an hour a week to be with.Leave the bustle for a while. You will not receive the full benefits of Tantra sex if you do not prioritize your relationship.
*Explore self According to Tantra, the body is your temple.Through the body, you express your thoughts and desires.Therefore, it is important for you to love yourself Tantra also recommend that you not ashamed to masturbate or touch his own body as a way of exploring yourself.
*Prepare atmosphere builders Have you read the article that promotes sex to light candles and music as a passionate sex enhancer? The suggestion was already made thousands of years ago by the followers of Tantra.Prepare exotic music that is not too slow like the rhythm of the Indian sitar, Latin American music, and lounge-music, and set the dim lighting.You also can prepare the wine and snacks.
*Sexy wear Choose clothing that makes you feel sexy and want to make love.You can use soft materials or do not wear anything but experimenting with accessories.
*Communication Tantra teaches couples to be open and mutual respect.While enjoying wine and discuss your wishes in a living spouse or love relationship.You may want to talk with each other to make it more intimate.After that, you can move to stage non-verbal communication.You can take a bath in the tub together, or do massage that can make the body relax.You also can dance in front of couples with sensual music, and then asked to come with you.And do not forget to maintain eye contact.This phase of communication that can make you both focused on each other.Kundalini in you will wake up, but do not rush to make love.Go back to the principles of Tantra: enjoy the moment.
*Breathe If you learn yoga, it's certainly easier for you.Breathing mindfully can help you focus in sex. In addition, regular deep breaths can help your partner make love longer because breathing shallowly accelerate orgasm.As an exercise, sitting cross-legged facing your partner.Place your hands on your thighs with your palms facing upwards.We looked into his eyes, take a deep breath.Look at his eyes (especially the right eye) and assume you're trying to reach his soul.Try to breathe with the same speed with your partner.Take a breath from the nose and exhale through the mouth. Do this exercise until you can breathe in harmony without taking his eyes for 10 minutes.
After doing the exercise above, you are now able to continue in bringing erotic adventurer and Shiva Shakti.Body and soul you are ready to enter new territory, namely a la Tantra sex drugged and awaken your Kundalini.
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